In August of 2021, we made a decision to forfeit games out of safety concerns for my players, especially the young ones. At that time we were struggling with numbers due to Covid and just trying to get kids involved.
We had about 19 kids and I believe 10, maybe 12, were incoming freshmen. I had a choice to make, focus on playing football or truly putting the kids first and take the heat for forfeiting games.
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